An American celebrity da’ee and qaari was recently arrested and is being prosecuted for trying to make child pr0n. I’ll call him Qari Diddy. If you don’t know who I’m talking about, do not reply asking me for a name.
I’m making a general point about the Muslim community and our attitude towards marriage. It’s broadly applicable to a lot of our marital and communal problems. Therefore, there is no need to talk about any specific person.
If I understand it correctly, Qari Diddy conspired with his side piece to groom her daughter.
First, wtf!
Second, if you know who I’m talking about Qari Diddy has always been sus. Have you seen him speak or recite Quran? Bro is always so extra and gives off serial unaliver vibes. Turns out those weren’t serial unaliver vibes, they were pedo vibes.
Third, this kind of thing tends to happen when Qari-Diddy-types watch a lot of pr0n. They become desensitized and have to get into more and more degen stuff to get off.
Fourth…
And this is a conversation no one is having because it will get you lynched…
A man whose balls have been recently drained does not have the inclination to chase pumpum. This effect is prolonged the older a man gets. Of course, it varies based on the man’s health and baseline libido, but what I said is generally true.
If you’re good at putting two and two together, you know what I’m getting at. And if you aren’t, I’ll just spell it out. The reason Qari-Diddy-types are watching pr0n and having side tings and engaging it other degenerate behaviour is…
Their wives have stopped having secks with them.
If Diddy’s main chick was regularly giving up the cheeks, he physically and mentally would not have had the capacity to look elsewhere. Don’t get mad at me, take it up with The One Who Created male biology.
But… but… But nothing.
Even if she had a valid excuse to not fulfill her wifely obligations… The next conversation no one is having is… If main chick one can’t give it up, there could always be a main chick two, three or four.
So why isn’t modern Muslim society more open to polygyny?
I’ll tell you why.
It’s because when they say, marriage is a partnership, they are only talking about the husband treating the woman like a partner and not the other way around. A real partnership goes both ways.
In Qari Diddy’s case, they say it was his wife who reported him to the authorities, leading to his arrest.
I say Qari Diddy’s wife was an unwitting accomplice in his descent into the abyss.